How to LET go of your IMAGINARY perfect girlfriend/boyfriend?
Now, this question up here is applicable to both ladies & gents on their journey of clearing imaginary Mr. & Ms. perfect out of their life. I know that journey is too hard. I know you would probably think that is impossible. So i am writing this article to help you out.
I have 4 lists below that you can do as a habbit or simply a way to let him/her out!!!
1. Stop thinking like your perfect girlfrind/boyfriend exists. It's an obvious way to get rid of him. Take him/her out of your mind. It will only complicate your life. Like me, you'll end up thinking too much about his/her existence in this world. Wake up! Remember? Nobody is perfect. So go back to reality and look for the unperfect one. Who knows, he/she might be the right one not the perfect one.
2. Go out and have fun with your friends. Now, in order for you to do the thing above, you need to get out of your comfort zone and start having fun especially with your friends. Being with them is the most ideal strategy to take him/her out of your mind coz you know when you are with your friends possibly you could do a lot of things with them. Like, partying, travelling, or even singing karaoke plus with wines or alcohol. Drinking- Isn't ideal since it only takes the memory for a short period of time. You could have it but don't depend on it coz it might end your life not your memory of her and that's not our goal for this matter.
3. TRAVEL- I have to put it on CAPSLOCK because this for me is the best way to deal with it. When you travel you see so much about the world. You'll realize that there's more to life than what you expect. You get to experience new air, new people, new life by travelling. It will open more positivity about yourself and other things. Go on! Walked.Run.Travel. I'd tell you, it is really fun and at the same time it helps you heal your self and put it back on the right track.
4. Pray- Now, once you are there do not forget to pray. Pray. Pray. Pray to God and ask him for a renewed life. A life that you truly deserve. Ask Him for the right one. But i have to warn you. When he/she comes, be ready. It's never going to be easy. It will always be like that. That is life. No shortcuts. No easy breezy. No easy way out. Once you put yourself in to it it's either you burn or live brightly. So cheer up! Pray and chill. Heheh
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Jesie L. Alburo
I have 4 lists below that you can do as a habbit or simply a way to let him/her out!!!
1. Stop thinking like your perfect girlfrind/boyfriend exists. It's an obvious way to get rid of him. Take him/her out of your mind. It will only complicate your life. Like me, you'll end up thinking too much about his/her existence in this world. Wake up! Remember? Nobody is perfect. So go back to reality and look for the unperfect one. Who knows, he/she might be the right one not the perfect one.
2. Go out and have fun with your friends. Now, in order for you to do the thing above, you need to get out of your comfort zone and start having fun especially with your friends. Being with them is the most ideal strategy to take him/her out of your mind coz you know when you are with your friends possibly you could do a lot of things with them. Like, partying, travelling, or even singing karaoke plus with wines or alcohol. Drinking- Isn't ideal since it only takes the memory for a short period of time. You could have it but don't depend on it coz it might end your life not your memory of her and that's not our goal for this matter.
3. TRAVEL- I have to put it on CAPSLOCK because this for me is the best way to deal with it. When you travel you see so much about the world. You'll realize that there's more to life than what you expect. You get to experience new air, new people, new life by travelling. It will open more positivity about yourself and other things. Go on! Walked.Run.Travel. I'd tell you, it is really fun and at the same time it helps you heal your self and put it back on the right track.
4. Pray- Now, once you are there do not forget to pray. Pray. Pray. Pray to God and ask him for a renewed life. A life that you truly deserve. Ask Him for the right one. But i have to warn you. When he/she comes, be ready. It's never going to be easy. It will always be like that. That is life. No shortcuts. No easy breezy. No easy way out. Once you put yourself in to it it's either you burn or live brightly. So cheer up! Pray and chill. Heheh
-by
Jesie L. Alburo